Okay, so I don’t have much time, but I need to rant somewhere and I don’t know if anyone reads this damn blog anyway. So today, after spending time with my friend, I went on a kind of date with this guy I had met recently. Sam (name has been changed for no discernible reason) was a super nice freshman at St. John’s College with whom I had become friendly. So we were hanging out in his dorm, having a drink, when he suddenly kisses me. So we made out, but he was super touchy. And kind of aggressive. But he wasn’t a bad kisser, so this continued for a minute or 2. Then he kneels on top of me and tells me to go down on him. When I told him I wasn’t comfortable with that because this was our second time meeting, he got mad at me that I’d killed the mood, and told me to leave. I was pretty hurt, I mean, I’d had a crush on him since I’d last seen him. But this is something I’ve noticed with a lot of guys. There’s a BJE. A Blow Job Expectation. While I probably would’ve been happy to once I’d gotten to know him better, this sudden demand was too much for me. After I took my leave I felt pretty bad about myself. I don’t know where the BJE came from, but it really took a toll on what could’ve been a great date, and maybe even a great relationship.